Beyond the romance and honeymoon, marriage and relationships can be tough to keep up with. Especially since you're journeying through life together; exploring and living ups and downs. Fortunately, love lasts through it all. These 4 heartwarming stories from our community will inspire you that romance definitely does not die even as you age!
Credit: Maimunah
Since then, he would call me at the office quite a bit and after 6 months, I informed my parents about him. He was invited over (and got interviewed by my parents! Hahaha!) and after meeting him, my parents agreed to us being together!
Credit: Maimunah
Here's something a little funny I haven't mentioned about this, though. My mum asked my uncle who worked at the same area to check him (Ismail) out - like a spy! I guess my uncle liked him, because he recommended Ismail to my mum and we got engaged, then married. ?
Some tips I have to keep a marriage alive:
1. Understanding. He works in logistics and comes home late often, and I don't complain.
2. Always forgive each other.
3. Share housework (he is very helpful!)
4. Don't share your problems with others
5. Manage the household income well. We don't buy anything until we have enough savings.
Credit: Mr & Mrs Jamil
We first met during Hari Raya in 1991, when I was visiting a friend. He sat next to his mum and just listened to the conversation that was happening. Back then, I had no feelings toward him. Might have been the opposite! ?
On that very same night, he called me, introduced himself and asked if I was willing to go out with him. I was surprised but I said yes immediately! And so our relationship started there.
Credit: Mr & Mrs Jamil
Alhamdulillah, it was a smooth journey. Our courtship was fast, though. Especially since we clicked immediately! We were very in love and fortunately, our parents gave their blessings immediately. I just knew he was the right man. He was patient, responsible, loving and funny. We eventually decided to get married even though we were very young.
Funny thing is, I was the kind of person who was scared of guys. But with him, I didn't have any fear! I found it funny.
How we kept our love alive:
1. Respect
2. Understanding
3. Communication
4. Giving in to each other
5. Forgive and forget
6. Love unconditionally
7. Lots of nonsense jokes from him! Hahaha!
8. Never stop dating till now
We've been together for 28 years and we're still living together with so much love & happiness.
Credit: Jabbar & Hajrah
On 4 Dec 1977, we (Jabbar and Hajrah) were kendarat (wedding helpers) at a wedding. My job was to wash the dishes and her, to serve the guests. It's important to note that back then, men were given a packet of cigarettes and a towel wrapped around their wrists. On that day, as she was passing the tray to me, she asked me for my towel and without hesitation, I gave it to her. However as minutes passed, I did not see my towel and started to get worried, so I called my sister and asked my sister for help getting my towel back. And well, the moment I received it back, I took one look at her and... the rest was history! I spent the rest of the day teasing her about the towel and trying to get her attention. Later on, my sister gave me her home phone number.
During that era, we didn't have mobile phones. So our main mode of communication was letters. We would meet at the bus interchange before boarding our buses at Bedok interchange and exchange a Readers Digest book to meet and to pass each other letters. The letters are now well-preserved in an album!
Credit: Jabbar & Hajrah
I worked hard through the army and made sure after the army I would receive a steady income and honest earnings. And although back then, army boys were considered naughty, I stayed loyal.
We've lived through some pretty memorable moments. When we were newly married and just had a child, who is asthmatic and needed to be sent to KK hospital very frequently. There was this particular day when we did not have enough cash as our savings was very low. So we decided to take a bus (the nearest bus stop was about 1km away then). As we were walking and talking about money, we saw a $50 note......... Well, that day we had good lunch, good medicine and a good taxi ride home!
If I had a few tips for couples looking to keep the love alive, it would be this:
1. Trust each other and make sure there are no secrets between the two of you
2. ''My money is our money''! ?
3. Independence & teamwork. As I was quite often sent overseas for Military Training or Operations, Hajrah would always and till today, manage the boys, the house, the running to hospital for appointments, wedding invitations etc.
4. Keep up the art of saving.
From the time I knew her and the moment I was enlisted in the army which my pay was $90, she strongly encourage me to start saving $10 per month in SAYE (Save As You Earn) in the bank (POSB) and I never looked back.
5. Treat your wife like a CRYSTAL ? and always CHERISH the day you met!
Romantic, Heartwarming Stories
1. Ismail (60), Maimunah (56)
We worked in the same area but in a different building. I was a clerk back then and he worked in the store (cargo) department. One day when we were on the bus he caught sight of me and wanted to get to know me. So he came to my office (even though it was not part of his job! ?) just to collect documents from me.
Credit: Maimunah
Since then, he would call me at the office quite a bit and after 6 months, I informed my parents about him. He was invited over (and got interviewed by my parents! Hahaha!) and after meeting him, my parents agreed to us being together!
Credit: Maimunah
Here's something a little funny I haven't mentioned about this, though. My mum asked my uncle who worked at the same area to check him (Ismail) out - like a spy! I guess my uncle liked him, because he recommended Ismail to my mum and we got engaged, then married. ?
Some tips I have to keep a marriage alive:
1. Understanding. He works in logistics and comes home late often, and I don't complain.
2. Always forgive each other.
3. Share housework (he is very helpful!)
4. Don't share your problems with others
5. Manage the household income well. We don't buy anything until we have enough savings.
2. Mr & Mrs Jamil, 50 & 48
Credit: Mr & Mrs Jamil
We first met during Hari Raya in 1991, when I was visiting a friend. He sat next to his mum and just listened to the conversation that was happening. Back then, I had no feelings toward him. Might have been the opposite! ?
On that very same night, he called me, introduced himself and asked if I was willing to go out with him. I was surprised but I said yes immediately! And so our relationship started there.
Credit: Mr & Mrs Jamil
Alhamdulillah, it was a smooth journey. Our courtship was fast, though. Especially since we clicked immediately! We were very in love and fortunately, our parents gave their blessings immediately. I just knew he was the right man. He was patient, responsible, loving and funny. We eventually decided to get married even though we were very young.
Funny thing is, I was the kind of person who was scared of guys. But with him, I didn't have any fear! I found it funny.
How we kept our love alive:
1. Respect
2. Understanding
3. Communication
4. Giving in to each other
5. Forgive and forget
6. Love unconditionally
7. Lots of nonsense jokes from him! Hahaha!
8. Never stop dating till now
We've been together for 28 years and we're still living together with so much love & happiness.
3. Abdul Jabbar (59), Hajrah Bee (58)
Credit: Jabbar & Hajrah
On 4 Dec 1977, we (Jabbar and Hajrah) were kendarat (wedding helpers) at a wedding. My job was to wash the dishes and her, to serve the guests. It's important to note that back then, men were given a packet of cigarettes and a towel wrapped around their wrists. On that day, as she was passing the tray to me, she asked me for my towel and without hesitation, I gave it to her. However as minutes passed, I did not see my towel and started to get worried, so I called my sister and asked my sister for help getting my towel back. And well, the moment I received it back, I took one look at her and... the rest was history! I spent the rest of the day teasing her about the towel and trying to get her attention. Later on, my sister gave me her home phone number.
During that era, we didn't have mobile phones. So our main mode of communication was letters. We would meet at the bus interchange before boarding our buses at Bedok interchange and exchange a Readers Digest book to meet and to pass each other letters. The letters are now well-preserved in an album!
Credit: Jabbar & Hajrah
I worked hard through the army and made sure after the army I would receive a steady income and honest earnings. And although back then, army boys were considered naughty, I stayed loyal.
We've lived through some pretty memorable moments. When we were newly married and just had a child, who is asthmatic and needed to be sent to KK hospital very frequently. There was this particular day when we did not have enough cash as our savings was very low. So we decided to take a bus (the nearest bus stop was about 1km away then). As we were walking and talking about money, we saw a $50 note......... Well, that day we had good lunch, good medicine and a good taxi ride home!
If I had a few tips for couples looking to keep the love alive, it would be this:
1. Trust each other and make sure there are no secrets between the two of you
2. ''My money is our money''! ?
3. Independence & teamwork. As I was quite often sent overseas for Military Training or Operations, Hajrah would always and till today, manage the boys, the house, the running to hospital for appointments, wedding invitations etc.
4. Keep up the art of saving.
From the time I knew her and the moment I was enlisted in the army which my pay was $90, she strongly encourage me to start saving $10 per month in SAYE (Save As You Earn) in the bank (POSB) and I never looked back.
5. Treat your wife like a CRYSTAL ? and always CHERISH the day you met!
